🎶 Your Amazing, Just The Way You Are 🎶

In the key of Bruno Mars 😉😊

I am transparent, but I came here with my guard held higher than ever. I didn’t want to be myself when I arrived here in country to my new unit. The last few months had been tough. I felt like being myself rubbed a few people the wrong way at my previous unit. I can’t say units because being myself and realizing my worth got me this far. With that, I had my ah ha moment. That is what I was reminded of yesterday. It’s ok to be me, if being who I am rubs someone the wrong way, it’s not my issue, but theirs. I shouldn’t change for anyone to fit in.

I went out for dinner last night with a very transparent leader. This person wants the best for all that they encounter. I felt that just from our conversation and watching their interaction with the people within this unit. I strive to be that type of leader. My mentor has shown me a lot over the years. As she stated yesterday during a good old video chat, “your purpose will reveal itself, but keep doing what makes you great.” I shouldn’t put myself on pause.

Then there is my husband. He is my biggest supporter and motivator. Whenever I feel like I can’t, he tells me I can. I know I am his most difficult Soldier, but he loves me for that. During a conversation yesterday he actually told me “stop acting like your pay grade and act like your rank.” I felt that. He truly understands how my mind works, well, most of the time. When I am ready to complain, he reminds me not to give up and he supports me no matter what.

With my host of family and friends rooting for me everyday, I know I am doing something right.

Well, with that, I feel ready to take on this new journey while still being myself.